Guard Your Heart Against Hatred

I shared this Sunday morning in both services. I write it here for those who may have come in late or missed it. I share it because I love people — I love you. And as your pastor, I want to ask you to guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life (Proverbs 4:23). Guard it against hatred.

It’s always interesting to me to see how things coincide.

For example, in recent days some in the media (both commercial and social) have reported on Christians who were angry with Starbucks for using Christmas colors on their cups, but not mentioning Christmas. From some of the reports, one would think that Christians were taking to the streets by the thousands, outraged over this atrocity. This was not the case. I am sure there were a few Christians who felt angry about this, but as a friend of mine posted:

i have 1484 Facebook friends, more than 1300 of them are Christians and 0 of them have posted about how offended they are about red cups. #NotOurFight

As a Christian, I find myself troubled, not by the fact that Starbucks doesn’t proclaim Messiah’s birth. What I find troubling is being stereotyped as having the same views as a minority group of Christians.

My Baptist friends felt this intensely when that whack-o, Fred Phelps and his family took the name Baptist into the headlines with his hate-speech concerning homosexuality. Every Christian I know was outraged by Phelps abuse of Christianity. Baptists were, rightly so, all the more outraged that he used their name.

Most of us resist being mischaracterized.

Every group, from the media, to religious types, to irreligious atheists, to fishermen, to Americans, to Asians, to athletes, to redheads, to blondes, to teens, to senior citizens has members who do not represent the whole of the group. This is a problem that comes with being in a society. Perhaps a greater problem is when society chooses to judge every member of any group by the behavior of the few.

I heard a statistic recently regarding the number of people in the United States claiming to be Muslim compared to the number of mosques in the United States. The point was that the vast majority of Muslims in the States could not go to the mosque even if they wanted to, simply because there is not enough room for them. The vast majority are, evidently like “Christians” here and there — nominal. If you don’t care enough to go to your own house of worship, you’re probably not radical regarding your faith.

Yet, just as some in the media (commercial and social) mischaracterizes Christians concerning the color of Starbucks cups, based on the action of a few, they mischaracterize all Muslims as being evil, based on the despicable actions of a minority.

That’s not right.

Being labeled as a nut-job because some in your tribe are mad at Starbucks is pretty trivial. Being labeled as a terrorist because some in your tribe are so — that would be alarming.

Bearers of the Good News of Christ have spent vast resources on helping all people find forgiveness and honor in the work of Jesus on the cross. Gracious people have given money. Others have given time. Some have given a lifetime of service. Some are giving right now, on the field. Some have given their lives. They have done this because they understand that the phrase, “the world” in John 3:16 means “the world”. And, according to some sources, their investment is paying off. Lives are being changed and people who it seemed would never open their hearts to Jesus are doing so at a level not seen in our lifetime. But I have heard these workers say that their work is made more difficult when believers speak words of hatred toward their audience. Hatred builds walls. Walls close off opportunities to share the way of eternal life.

Closing our hearts and closing our doors and closing our minds is counter-productive to both the Great Commandment (Matthew 22:37-39) and the Great Commission (Matthew 28:19-20).

Christians need to stop treating others the way some in the media (commercial and social) treat us.

You don’t have to agree. Sharper people than you and me have opinions that differ, one from the other.

But as your pastor who loves you I say this: You have to guard your heart. Hatred isn’t healthy for you.

About that One Who Pushes You

Take a moment and think of someone who was part of your life who was also hard on you, personally. Maybe it was a parent — always riding you about your laziness. Or maybe it was a teacher — always nagging you concerning your academic performance. Or maybe it was a good friend who was always on your case about something in your life where you weren’t doing as well as you could have done.

Do you have that person in your mind? Good. Let’s call him Chauncey.

Now consider this question: Why was Chauncey so hard on you? Did Chauncey hate you? Probably not. Was it because Chauncey wanted to ridicule you? I doubt it. Was Chauncey generally obnoxious? Not really.

Here’s what I have noticed about myself: I am generally the most frustrated with the people in whom I see the greatest potential. If I see little potential in someone, I have small expectations of them. If I see great potential in someone, and I see time passing by without them pursuing their potential, I become disturbed — for their sake. And the degree of anger I feel concerning this shortcoming in their life will correspond with the depth of my love for them.

In chapter five of his excellent book, The Reason for God, Tim Keller considers the question, How can a loving God be an angry God? As he addresses this, Keller points out that when you have love, you are bound to have anger against anything that injures what you love. Keller quotes Becky Pippert, who writes, Anger isn’t the opposite of love. Hate is, and the final form of hate is indifference. I get that, because it is generally those that I love the most and wish the best for with whom I become the most frustrated.

This helps explain why some say, “I feel more acceptance from my drinking buddies than I feel from the people I go to church with.” Sometimes this is a matter of projection — the speaker is projecting a disposition onto his church family that most of them do not own. Other times it’s a matter of “Christians” being overly-critical. That happens.

But there’s a third explanation: Maybe his drinking buddies don’t really want the best for him or the best of him. Maybe they want nothing more from him than for him to be a good old boy. In contrast, maybe his brothers and sisters in Christ want the best for him and the best of him. And when he fails to pursue that very thing, the friends who love him most let him know.

Could this be the explanation for the behavior of Chauncey — the person that pressures you toward better things?

And whether it is the explanation or not, how would your life be different if you were to see those who press for the best for you and in you as an ally?

Choices

Seen on a friend’s Facebook…

Choices

She’s spot on. Over and over again, I see people making bad choices — repeatedly, carelessly, and intentionally. The results vary, from causing a small problem to ruining an entire life.

My good friend, Rev. Bernie Knefley, writes a regular column that he emails to some of us. I appreciate his perspective and try to tell him so each time. This time, however, I really connected with what he said. I post it here with his permission…. and no further comment.

Choices
by Pastor B.J. Knefley

A lot can be said about choices. They’re happening all the time. Some are good, and some are not. Many affect not just the person who’s making them, but others as well. We don’t often think about how our choices affect the life of others, but they do.

Taking responsibility for choices is another thing. Many don’t want to do that. Instead they blame others for what’s happening rather than taking responsibility for their choices. Consequences are the result of choices and sometimes they’re not pleasant. They’re normal things that happen when we make choices. Consequences teach us to make better choices. Have you ever noticed how selfish people can be in their choices? Like they’re the only people that matter?

I got up this morning and told my wife I wanted to take today as a vacation day. I know, how can a retired person take a vacation day, isn’t everyday a vacation? Well no, not really. There are always things to do, places to go and people to see. I have at least two appointments in my schedule today that, although not unpleasant appointments, obligations none the less. I guess my wife didn’t hear me or take me seriously as she’s gone into town to shop. So I decided to write. I guess the vacation day is out the window, at least for now.

Maybe you’re wondering why I’m writing about choices. Simply because I’m tired this morning, tired of having to deal emotionally, physically, and spiritually with the choices of others. Choices that I have no control over, yet affect me anyway. And in these, more than I would like. To make matters worse, they don’t seem to want to take responsibility and accept the consequences that come with their choices. It’s almost as if they think that their choice was no big deal. Sadly, if they don’t get a handle on things they’ll probably make the same poor choices again.

For me, and you if you’re in the same place, [the solution] is to seek solitude and comfort in his presence. Hence my reason for a vacation day. Sometimes we just need to quiet our surroundings. Think about it.

~Pastor Steve

What’s It Matter…

One sunny morning a child was walking a beach littered with starfish, left behind by the tide. As she walked among the thousands of starfish, she began to pick them up, one by one, and toss them into the sea.starfishes

Within a few minutes an adult walked by and inquired, “What are you doing?”

I’m tossing these starfish back into the sea before they dry out and die.

You’ve got to be kidding. There are thousands of starfish drying out on this beach. You can’t save them all; what does it matter?

The little girl picked up a starfish, looked at it, and said, “It matters to this one,” and tossed it into the sea.

Curwensville Alliance is watching — more than watching — participating with J&J in their adoption of one little girl from an Eastern European country. They were among the first to make many of us aware that there are 144 million orphaned children in our world.

144,000,000 oprhans. And they are adopting one. What difference could it make?

It matters to this one.

Why the Cross?

Presented at the Lenten Lunch on 3/4/2015

Clipboard01When I was in sixth grade we studied Ancient Egypt. Our teachers were great, and we loved the stories of mummies, chariots, and pyramids. You know what the Egyptian Ankh is, right? It’s a hieroglyphic symbol that is found, sometimes being carried by the people in the pictures from Ancient Egypt. It’s a cross with a loop on the top. One of my classmates said to the teacher, “Why did they have crosses centuries before Jesus was even born?” I’ll never forget the teacher’s reply: “Wow – I don’t know!” It was a teacher-stumper!

It’s not that hard a question, if you think about it. Asking why the Egyptian language had a cross with a loop at the top is like asking why the English alphabet has a cross at the beginning of words like Timothy and tomato. It just does.

A better question than, “Why did the Egyptians have a cross-shaped letter in their language?” might be, “Why do people of 2015 wear crosses?” Whether it’s a pastor in the season of Lent wearing one or a pop star like Rihanna, people adorn themselves with crosses. What’s with our society’s fascination with the cross? I can’t answer the question for any pop stars. But I can tell you why I love the cross.

I love the cross because I understand its necessity.

Did you catch that line? I understand that the cross is essential – necessary.

Jesus said the Cross was necessary. Matthew 16:21 says…

Matthew 16:21 (NIV) From that time on Jesus began to explain to his disciples that he must go to Jerusalem and suffer many things at the hands of the elders, the chief priests and the teachers of the law, and that he must be killed and on the third day be raised to life.

Jesus saw the cross as something that could not be avoided. I must go to Jerusalem and suffer many things at the hands of the elders… and be killed…. The cross is something Jesus had to endure.

One reason I know the cross is unavoidable is because I see my inexhaustible capacity to sin. If you’re honest, you see your own, as well. And you agree with Romans 7 where Paul comments…

Romans 7:21-24 (NLT) I have discovered this principle of life—that when I want to do what is right, I inevitably do what is wrong. I love God’s law with all my heart. But there is another power within me that is at war with my mind. This power makes me a slave to the sin that is still within me. Oh, what a miserable person I am! Who will free me from this life that is dominated by sin and death?

Does that sound familiar? I get that. I see a powerful fire – not just within myself, but within every person I’ve ever met – that burns toward sin. The cross is essential because of our inexhaustible capacity to sin.

I see the need for the cross when I see my undeniable inability to fix myself. I can try. I can make New Years’ Resolutions. I can get a self-help book. But I can’t fix my brokenness.

The Bible says we’re powerless to fix ourselves. You hear it in words like All have sinned, and There is no one righteous, no not one and All our righteousness is as filthy rags. The cross is essential, because I can’t fix myself. As it speaks of this, Romans 5:6 says…

Romans 5:6 (NIV) You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly.

We are powerless. That’s the perfect word. We have no power. That is why the cross is essential.

The cross is essential because we are all marked by guilt. The cross is essential because we have no power to save ourselves. And I know the cross is essential because I see my own demand for justice.

All of us demand justice. Whether it’s regarding something we see on the news – when someone hurts a child, for example — or even if it’s the bad guy in a movie getting what’s coming to him, we all want justice. That feeling – that indignant demand for justice – shows me the need for the cross. Even I know that sin must be atoned for. Justice must be satisfied. And at the cross, God’s justice is satisfied. It’s satisfied by Jesus’ death on our behalf. I love the cross because I see its necessity.

But there’s more than that.

I love the cross because I understand its value.

Clipboard02When Laurel and I were dating, she wanted a cross to hang on a necklace. I remember the great pains I went to in order to get just the right one. And, as a university student, I didn’t have a lot of money to spend. So I went to a place in Pittsburgh – David Weis, it was called – and bought her the best one I could afford. I probably paid about $20 for it. She still has it. Its value is not in what it’s made of. Or its size. Or the craftsmanship. Its value is in its history. It was given her by one who loved her.

The cross of Christ is like that. Its value is not in the wood or the nails; Its value is in the One who used it.

Generally speaking, the cross is not something we would look to, right? If Jesus had never died on the cross, we would not be wearing them or adoring buildings with them or getting tattoos of them. Crosses have no lasting value apart from Jesus. But the fact that Jesus used a cross – willingly laying down his life on one – makes me love it.

Notice, I said Jesus used the cross. He wasn’t a victim. Jesus was very intentional as he chose the cross. He set his face like flint and headed to Jerusalem – to the cross.
Jesus gives the cross its value. I look to the cross because I know its value.

And I love the cross because I see its outcome.

Trusting in Christ’s work on the cross gives a life of freedom from guilt and shame. I don’t know about you, but I know I’ve done bad things. OK – I do know about you. You’ve done bad things too. And generally we manage our guilt poorly. We sweep it under the carpet, and then it becomes a bulge beneath the surface. Or we try to rationalize the bad things we’ve done, and then everyone else sees it, but we don’t. Or we compare ourselves to others, in a desperate way to distract ourselves from our guilt. We manage our guilt poorly.

The cross, on the other hand, is where Jesus took ownership of our guilt. And because of the cross, when we place our trust in him, we can be free from guilt. Peter says it well…

1 Peter 2:24 (NIV) “He himself bore our sins” in his body on the cross, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; “by his wounds you have been healed.”

Jesus carried our guilt and shame on the cross.

Bono, the front man for the rock group U2 sings to Jesus, You broke the bonds and you loosed the chains Carried the cross And all my shame. When we trust Jesus, the outcome of the cross is the removal of our guilt. I look to the cross because I see its outcome.

And at the cross, I see a promise of eternal life.

What is the most important holiday in the Christian’s life? Christmas? Good Friday? Easter Sunday? They are all important, right? But the one I like the most is Easter Sunday – when we celebrate the resurrection. Why? Why is that such an important time? I can think of a couple of reasons.

First, the empty tomb proves to me that the work of redemption is complete. God’s justice has been satisfied.

Second, the empty tomb serves as a kind of first-fruits of what is to come. That all who have trusted in Jesus will rise from the grave as well. I like Easter Sunday better than Good Friday.

But hear this – without the cross, there would be no Easter Sunday. And there would be no hope of eternal life. Our sins would remain unresolved. Justice would still be waiting to be satisfied. And we would be the ones carrying the guilt and shame into eternity, separate from God. But because of the cross – trusting Jesus gives us eternal life.